Seven And A Half Percent Of My Life

I've been alive 14,504 days. It's been 1,095 days since my mom passed away from cancer on December 18, 2012. That means I have now lived 7.5% of my life without my mom. That number is staggering to me. But from the reverse perspective, I lived 92.5% of my life with her. That's 13,409 days… Continue reading Seven And A Half Percent Of My Life

Mother’s Day Without A Mother Or A Child: A Conversation On Another Plane

Me and Mom as babies in our strollers.

Here we meet again. The three of us. Together only in my mind. Mom, you were given only 59 years on this planet before being called back to Heaven, but you made those years meaningful. You made an imprint on everyone who knew you. You spent 36 of those years raising me, protecting me, teaching… Continue reading Mother’s Day Without A Mother Or A Child: A Conversation On Another Plane

Take Your Crystal Ball And Shove It

If you could see into your future, would you? If someone handed you a crystal ball right now, is that knowledge you'd want? I mean, maybe I'd like to know if I should buy these jeans today or if they're going on sale next week, but would I really want to know what my life… Continue reading Take Your Crystal Ball And Shove It

Cold Weather And A Year Of Memories

One day the temperature is 42F degrees, the next the windchill is 14F degrees below zero. This is December in the Midwest, I'm used to rapidly changing weather. Just because you expect it, doesn't mean it's not jarring to your system. You layer up the cold weather gear. Heavy coat, boots, scarf, hat. All in… Continue reading Cold Weather And A Year Of Memories